When we face pain in relationships our first response is often to sever bonds rather than to maintain commitment.
BELL HOOKSAll our silences in the face of racist assault are acts of complicity.
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Since loving is about knowing, we have more meaningful love relationships when we know each other and it takes time to know each other.
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Patriarchy has no gender.
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Death is with you all the time; you get deeper in it as you move towards it, but it’s not unfamiliar to you. It’s always been there, so what becomes unfamiliar to you when you pass away from the moment is really life.
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If any female feels she need anything beyond herself to legitimate and validate her existence, she is already giving away her power to be self-defining, her agency.
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Being oppressed means the absence of choices.
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To know love we have to invest time and commitment.
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You can only realize change if you live simply. Once people want enormous excess, you can hardly do social change.
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Forgiveness and compassion are always linked: how do we hold people accountable for wrongdoing and yet at the same time remain in touch with their humanity enough to believe in their capacity to be transformed?
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There will be no mass-based feminist movement as long as feminist ideas are understood only by a well-educated few.
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The one person who will never leave us, whom we will never lose, is ourself. Learning to love our female selves is where our search for love must begin.
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It’s in the act of having to do things that you don’t want to that you learn something about moving past the self. Past the ego.
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We judge on the basis of what somebody looks like, skin color, whether we think they’re beautiful or not. That space on the Internet allows you to converse with somebody with none of those things involved.
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Sometimes people try to destroy you, precisely because they recognize your power – not because they don’t see it, but because they see it and they don’t want it to exist.
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The rage of the oppressed is never the same as the rage of the privileged.
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What we do is more important than what we say or what we say we believe.
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