Life-transforming ideas have always come to me through books.
BELL HOOKSI feel that my environment reflects my belief in the grace and art and elegance of living simply.
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I believe that it is impossible for two individuals not committed to their own and each other’s well being to sustain a healthy and enduring relationship.
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Sometimes people try to destroy you, precisely because they recognize your power – not because they don’t see it, but because they see it and they don’t want it to exist.
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I think Black people need to take self-esteem seriously.
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Justice demands integrity. It’s to have a moral universe – not only know what is right or wrong but to put things in perspective, weigh things. Justice is different from violence and retribution; it requires complex accounting.
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Forgiveness and compassion are always linked: how do we hold people accountable for wrongdoing and yet at the same time remain in touch with their humanity enough to believe in their capacity to be transformed?
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All our silences in the face of racist assault are acts of complicity.
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Genuine love is rarely an emotional space where needs are instantly gratified.
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You can only realize change if you live simply. Once people want enormous excess, you can hardly do social change.
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Love is really more of an interactive process. It’s about what we do not just what we feel. It’s a verb, not a noun.
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We judge on the basis of what somebody looks like, skin color, whether we think they’re beautiful or not. That space on the Internet allows you to converse with somebody with none of those things involved.
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Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.
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The people I love, I’m committed to loving for the rest of my life.
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Life-transforming ideas have always come to me through books.
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If you do not know what you feel, then it is difficult to choose love; it is better to fall. Then you do not have to be responsible for your actions.
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To know love we have to invest time and commitment.
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What we cannot imagine cannot come into being.
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The function of art is to do more than tell it like it is-it’s to imagine what is possible.
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When we face pain in relationships our first response is often to sever bonds rather than to maintain commitment.
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To be truly visionary we have to root our imagination in our concrete reality while simultaneously imagining possibilities beyond that reality.
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Patriarchy has no gender.
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Giving generously in romantic relationships, and in all other bonds, means recognizing when the other person needs our attention. Attention is an important resource.
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All the men I fall for seem to have a commitment problem.
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Any society based on domination supports and condones violence.
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My idea of a delicious time is to read a book that is wonderful. But the ruling passion of my life is being a seeker after truth and the divine.
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No black woman writer in this culture can write “too much”. Indeed, no woman writer can write “too much”. No woman has ever written enough.
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The practice of love offers no place of safety. We risk loss, hurt, pain. We risk being acted upon by forces outside our control.
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