Bat for Lashes on expectations
Bat for Lashes21 quotes“I find it really interesting that people are shocked by the raw, natural representation of a woman and a man’s body.”
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I wrote about Freud and the process of sublimation, which is when you learn to stop breast-feeding, or stop going to the toilet whenever you want to. It’s about learning to repress a desire for instant gratification.
Bat for LashesBat for Lashes I guess it’s subverting our expectations in terms of how we’ve come to expect women to present themselves when they’re being naked. Also the woman’s and the man’s role is subverted in that image. You’d expect the man to be carrying the woman.
Bat for LashesBat for Lashes I’m not really frightened by experimenting – that’s the main thing. I really like mixing very old beautiful pieces that are from thrift shops or that have some historical value with quite new futuristic things.
Bat for LashesBat for Lashes It’s very much to do with how I’m feeling … I love to be experimental and use eclectic mismatched things and put them together to see what third entity is created!
Bat for LashesBat for Lashes I did gardening and cooking and drawing and reading to try take the pressure off the music – just being eclectic and putting the fun back in and bringing more innocence in again is really important.
Bat for LashesBat for Lashes I’ve hidden behind my hair more than clothes. Sometimes having long hair with a fringe is very useful when you don’t want to look at people. I used to have very short hair, but long hair is my thing – a black nocturnal shield.
Bat for LashesBat for Lashes I think the best cure is to stop doing the thing that you think you should be doing and go and have a bit of fun in another medium, maybe other crazy things.
Bat for LashesBat for Lashes I like to get dark sometimes and then come back out into the light.
Bat for LashesBat for Lashes I think what I wanted to do was meet someone who knew more than me about songwriting structure and progressions and middle eights and things that more traditional writers write and I don’t usually employ.
Bat for LashesBat for Lashes Dad was an amazing storyteller and illustrator, which he did in his spare time – very inspiring and dramatic.
Bat for LashesBat for Lashes I’d love to win a Grammy! Not ambitious or anything. And just having a really lovely bunch of kids and a happy family life, would be good for me.
Bat for LashesBat for Lashes They say for every high high there must be a low low low low low
Bat for LashesBat for Lashes And in a repressed society, artists fulfil a sense of harking back to instant gratification, or immediate expression, by doing things that function on the edge of society, or outside of what is conventionally accepted.
Bat for LashesBat for Lashes I always think that the exceptional people are those who remain outsiders but still communicate on a grand scale. I think I want everyone to feel more free, and so I feel really claustrophobic on behalf of lots of people.
Bat for LashesBat for Lashes We are bits of energy floating about in various guises, and when we die we rejoin the big cosmic soup of the universe.
Bat for LashesBat for Lashes Music’s free and music’s for everyone to enjoy and express and interpret. It transcends countries and times and decades.
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Bear GryllsBear Grylls I guess I’ll never measure up to anyone’s expectations. I surely don’t measure up to what I’d like to be.
Beatrice SparksBeatrice Sparks People who believe in a divine creator, trying to live their lives in obedience to his supposed wishes and in expectation of a supposed eternal reward, are victims of the greatest confidence trick of all time.
Barbara SmokerBarbara Smoker We don’t have a lot of expectations [for Donald J. Trump] because the American administration is not only about the President; it’s about different powers within this administration, the different lobbies that they are going to influence any President.
Bashar al-AssadBashar al-Assad Americans love marriage too much. We rush into mariage with abandon, expecting a micro-Utopia on earth. We pile all our needs onto it, our expectations, neuroses, and hopes. In fact, we’ve made marriage into the panda bear of human social institutions: we’ve loved it to death.
Barbara EhrenreichBarbara Ehrenreich It’s essential to distinguish between events that are really beyond your control and events you caused yourself.
Barbara SherBarbara Sher To live in poverty is to live with constant uncertainty, to accept galling indignities, and to expect harassment by the police, welfare officials and employers, as well as by others who are poor and desperate.
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