But kids don’t stay with you if you do it right. It’s the one job where, the better you are, the more surely you won’t be needed in the long run.
BARBARA KINGSOLVERBecause I could not stop for death he kindly stopped for me, or paused at least to strike a glancing blow with his sky-blue mouth as he passed.
More Barbara Kingsolver Quotes
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Insomnia’s different,” I said. It was hard to explain this to people. “You know the light that comes on when you open the refrigerator door? Just imagine it stays on all the time, even after you close the door. That’s what it’s like in my head. The light stays on.
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A flower is a plant’s way of making love.
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Sadness is more or less like a head cold – with patience, it passes. Depression is like cancer.
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How pointless life could be, what a foolish business of inventing things to love, just so you could dread losing them.
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Last time I talked to her she didn’t sound like herself. She’s depressed. It’s awful what happens when people run out of money. They start thinking they’re no good.
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Vengeance does not subtract any numbers from the equation of murder; it only adds them.
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Don’t try to make life a mathematics problem with yourself in the center and everything coming out equal. When you’re good, bad things can still happen. And if you’re bad, you can still be lucky.
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From my earliest memory, times of crisis seemed to end up with women in the kitchen preparing food for men.
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As long as I kept moving, my grief streamed out behind me like a swimmer’s long hair in water. I knew the weight was there but it didn’t touch me. Only when I stopped did the slick, dark stuff of it come floating around my face, catching my arms and throat till I began to drown. So I just didn’t stop.
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Empathy is really the opposite of spiritual meanness. It’s the capacity to understand that every war is both won and lost. And that someone else’s pain is as meaningful as your own.
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The average food item on a U.S. grocery shelf has traveled farther than most families go on their annual vacations.
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Life proceeds, it enrages. The untouched ones spend their luck without a thought, believing they deserve it.
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Why is it that only girls stand on the sides of their feet? As if they’re afraid to plant themselves?
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You see mother, you had no life of your own. They have no idea. One has only a life of one’s own.
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For Lou Ann, life itself was a life-threatening enterprise.
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