I considered her my ally, because, like me, she was imperfect.
BARBARA KINGSOLVERIf you’re standing in the manure pile, it’s somebody’s job to mention the stink.
More Barbara Kingsolver Quotes
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Memories do not always soften with time; some grow edges like knives.
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It kills you to see them grow up. But I guess it would kill you quicker if they didn’t.
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Some of us know how we came by our fortune and some of us don’t; but we wear it all the same
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If you want sweet dreams, you’ve got to live a sweet life.
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A good title holds magic, some cognitive dissonance, a little grit between the teeth, but above all it is the jumping-off place into wonder.
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You can’t replace people you love with other people…But you can trust that you’re not going to run out of people to love.
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Every life is different because you passed this way and touched history.
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Downstream is always someone else’s up.
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Don’t try to figure out what other people want to hear from you; figure out what you have to say.
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It occurs to her that there is one thing about people you can never understand well enough: how entirely inside themselves they are.
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We’re animals. We’re born like every other mammal and we live our whole lives around disguised animal thoughts.
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But kids don’t stay with you if you do it right. It’s the one job where, the better you are, the more surely you won’t be needed in the long run.
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Because I could not stop for death he kindly stopped for me, or paused at least to strike a glancing blow with his sky-blue mouth as he passed.
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There are some who’d hardly lift a finger for kindness, but they would haul up a load of rock to dump on some soul they think’s been too lucky.
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Even feigning surprise, pretending it was unexpected and saying a ritual thanks, is surely wiser than just expecting everything so carelessly.
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Close the door. Write with no one looking over your shoulder. Don’t try to figure out what other people want to hear from you; figure out what you have to say. It’s the one and only thing you have to offer.
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Parenting is something that happens mostly while you’re thinking of something else.
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The most important thing about a person is always the thing you don’t know.
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Now I’m starting to think he wasn’t supposed to be my whole life, he was just this doorway to me.
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Last time I talked to her she didn’t sound like herself. She’s depressed. It’s awful what happens when people run out of money. They start thinking they’re no good.
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Households that have lost the soul of cooking from their routines may not know what they are missing: the song of a stir-fry sizzle, the small talk of clinking measuring spoons, the yeasty scent of rising dough, the painting of flavors onto a pizza before it slides into the oven.
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I grew up aware of all the people I depended on and who depended on me.
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Value is not made of money, but a tender balance of expectation and longing.
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A dog can’t think that much about what he’s doing, he just does what feels right.
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Prayer had always struck me as more or less a glorified attempt at a business transaction.
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The average food item on a U.S. grocery shelf has traveled farther than most families go on their annual vacations.
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