But kids don’t stay with you if you do it right. It’s the one job where, the better you are, the more surely you won’t be needed in the long run.
BARBARA KINGSOLVERThe most important part of a story is the piece of it you don’t know.
More Barbara Kingsolver Quotes
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Growing food was the first activity that gave us enough prosperity to stay in one place, form complex social groups, tell our stories, and build our cities.
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Our childhood had passed over into history overnight. The transition was unnoticed by anyone but ourselves.
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No human eye had looked at this moth before; no one would see its friends. So much detail goes unnoticed in the world.
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It’s surprising how much memory is built around things unnoticed at the time.
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I do my best work if I think about what it is I have to offer.
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As long as I kept moving, my grief streamed out behind me like a swimmer’s long hair in water. I knew the weight was there but it didn’t touch me. Only when I stopped did the slick, dark stuff of it come floating around my face, catching my arms and throat till I began to drown. So I just didn’t stop.
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There is no point treating a depressed person as though she were just feeling sad, saying, ‘There now, hang on, you’ll get over it.’ Sadness is more or less like a head cold- with patience, it passes. Depression is like cancer.
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Empathy is really the opposite of spiritual meanness. It’s the capacity to understand that every war is both won and lost. And that someone else’s pain is as meaningful as your own.
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Stop a minute, right where you are. Relax your shoulders, shake your head and spine like a dog shaking off cold water. Tell that imperious voice in your head to be still.
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I considered her my ally, because, like me, she was imperfect.
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Hope is a renewable option: If you run out of it at the end of the day, you get to start over in the morning.
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You never knew which split second might be the zigzag bolt dividing all that went before from the everything that comes next.
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The most important part of a story is the piece of it you don’t know.
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Prayer had always struck me as more or less a glorified attempt at a business transaction.
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There are some who’d hardly lift a finger for kindness, but they would haul up a load of rock to dump on some soul they think’s been too lucky.
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