The substance of grief is not imaginary. It’s as real as rope or the absence of air, and like both those things, it can kill.
BARBARA KINGSOLVERThere is no point treating a depressed person as though she were just feeling sad, saying, ‘There now, hang on, you’ll get over it.’ Sadness is more or less like a head cold- with patience, it passes. Depression is like cancer.
More Barbara Kingsolver Quotes
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How pointless life could be, what a foolish business of inventing things to love, just so you could dread losing them.
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It’s a great freedom to give up on love, and get on with everything else.
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I know I’m a rare person, a trained scientist who writes fiction, because so few contemporary novelists engage with science.
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I had decided early on that if I couldn’t dress elegant, I’d dress memorable.
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You see mother, you had no life of your own. They have no idea. One has only a life of one’s own.
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Because I could not stop for death he kindly stopped for me, or paused at least to strike a glancing blow with his sky-blue mouth as he passed.
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Stop a minute, right where you are. Relax your shoulders, shake your head and spine like a dog shaking off cold water. Tell that imperious voice in your head to be still.
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Anybody can get worked up, if they have the intention. It’s peacefulness that is hard to come by on purpose.
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If we can’t, as artists, improve on real life, we should put down our pencils and go bake bread.
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Tall and straight I may appear, but I will always be Ada inside. A crooked little person trying to tell the truth. The power is in the balance: we are our injuries, as much as we are our successes
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People love to read about sins and errors, but not their own.
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You don’t think you’ll live past it and you don’t really. The person you were is gone. But the half of you that’s still alive wakes up one day and takes over again.
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Nothing to do with nature, unless you count human nature.
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It is harrowing for me to try to teach 20-year-old students, who earnestly want to improve their writing. The best I can think to tell them is: Quit smoking, and observe posted speed limits. This will improve your odds of getting old enough to be wise.
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Listen. Slide the weight from your shoulders and move forward. You are afraid you might forget, but you never will. You will forgive and remember.
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The artist deals with what cannot be said in words. The novelist says in words what cannot be said in words.
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Don’t try to make life a mathematics problem with yourself in the center and everything coming out equal. When you’re good, bad things can still happen. And if you’re bad, you can still be lucky.
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I’m not pretending to be ingenuous; I know what I’m doing.
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School is about two parts ABCs to fifty parts Where Do I Stand in the Great Pecking Order of Humankind.
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There are days when I am envious of my hens: when I hunger for a purpose as perfect and sure as a single daily egg.
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Few people know so clearly what they want. Most people can’t even think what to hope for when they throw a penny in a fountain.
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The truth needs so little rehearsal.
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Once you start cooking, one thing leads to another. A new recipe is as exciting as a blind date. A new ingredient, heaven help me, is an intoxicating affair.
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I’ve about decided that’s the main thing that separates happy people from the other people: the feeling that you’re a practical item, with a use, like a sweater or a socket wrench.
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No human eye had looked at this moth before; no one would see its friends. So much detail goes unnoticed in the world.
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Hope is a renewable option: If you run out of it at the end of the day, you get to start over in the morning.
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