Gandhi once declared that it was his wife who unwittingly taught him the effectiveness of nonviolence. Who better than women should know that battles can be won without resort to physical strength? Who better than we should know all the power that resides in noncooperation?
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More Barbara Deming Quotes
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The free man must be born before freedom can be won, and the brotherly man must be born before full brotherhood can be won. It will come into being only if we build it out of our very muscle and bone – by trying to act it out.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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A liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
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We learn best to listen to our own voices if we are listening at the same time to other women-whose stories, for all our differences, turn out, if we listen well, to be our stories also.
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I think the only choice that will enable us to hold to our vision. . . is one that abandons the concept of naming enemies and adopts a concept familiar to the nonviolent tradition: naming behavior that is oppressive.
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Our own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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After the revolution, let us hope, prisons simply would not exist – if by prisons we mean places that could be experienced by the men and women in them at all as every place that goes by that name now is bound to be experienced.
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Let me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
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We believe, in fact, that the one act of respect has little force unless matched by the other – in balance with it… The acting out of that dual respect I would name as precisely the source of our power.
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Surely all of us are nerved by one another, catch courage from one another.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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This is the heart of my argument: We can put more pressure on the antagonist for whom we show human concern.
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To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
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After the revolution, it might very well remain necessary to place people where they could not do harm to others. But the one under restraint should be cut off from the rest of society as little as possible.
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