Barbara Deming on balance
Barbara Deming34 quotes“We believe, in fact, that the one act of respect has little force unless matched by the other – in balance with it… The acting out of that dual respect I would name as precisely the source of our power.”
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The longer we listen to one another – with real attention – the more commonality we will find in all our lives. That is, if we are careful to exchange with one another life stories and not simply opinions.
Barbara DemingBarbara Deming A liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
Barbara DemingBarbara Deming Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
Barbara DemingBarbara Deming Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
Barbara DemingBarbara Deming We cannot live without our lives
Barbara DemingBarbara Deming People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.
Barbara DemingBarbara Deming To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
Barbara DemingBarbara Deming Surely all of us are nerved by one another, catch courage from one another.
Barbara DemingBarbara Deming Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
Barbara DemingBarbara Deming Of course it can be said of jails, too, that they try – by punishing the troublesome – to deter others. No doubt, in certain instances this deterrence actually works. But generally speaking it fails conspicuously.
Barbara DemingBarbara Deming There should be no censorship of mail.
Barbara DemingBarbara Deming The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.
Barbara DemingBarbara Deming The free man must be born before freedom can be won, and the brotherly man must be born before full brotherhood can be won. It will come into being only if we build it out of our very muscle and bone – by trying to act it out.
Barbara DemingBarbara Deming I think the only choice that will enable us to hold to our vision. . . is one that abandons the concept of naming enemies and adopts a concept familiar to the nonviolent tradition: naming behavior that is oppressive.
Barbara DemingBarbara Deming Let me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
Barbara DemingBarbara Deming there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
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Grow with discipline. Balance intuition with rigor. Innovate around the core. Don’t embrace the status quo.
Howard SchultzHoward Schultz A beautiful deleveraging balances the three options. In other words, there is a certain amount of austerity, there is a certain amount of debt restructuring, and there is a certain amount of printing of money. When done in the right mix, it isn’t dramatic.
Ray DalioRay Dalio The success of the Starbucks has been based on this balance between profitability and a social conscience. Everywhere we’re doing business, were trying to manage the business through the lens of humanity.
Howard SchultzHoward Schultz Work hard every day at increasing your purity of heart, which consists in appraising things and weighing them in the balance of God’s will.
St Francis De SalesSt Francis De Sales Don’t give up! It’s not over. The universe is balanced. Every set-back bears with it the seeds of a come-back.
Steve MaraboliSteve Maraboli I know what it takes to balance budgets. I have done it my entire life.
Mitt RomneyMitt Romney I was in the world of business for 25 years. If you didn’t balance your budget, you went out of business.
Mitt RomneyMitt Romney April’s air stirs in Willow-leaves, a butterfly Floats and balances.
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