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The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.

Barbara Deming

Our task, of course, is to transmute the anger that is affliction into the anger that is determination to bring about change. I think, in fact, that one could give that as a definition of revolution.
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Anger Determination Thinking
We cannot live without our lives
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Happen Life Live Our Surrounding
Of course it can be said of jails, too, that they try – by punishing the troublesome – to deter others. No doubt, in certain instances this deterrence actually works. But generally speaking it fails conspicuously.
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Doubt Jail Trying
Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people’s minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.
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Change Mind People
Our own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
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Pulse Spiritual Stranger
Let me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
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Happen Live Moment Place Time
To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
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Need Speak Violent
There should be no censorship of mail.
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Censorship Mail Regulation Strict
People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.
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Attack Need People Rationalization
Vengeance is not the point: change is.
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Change Point Vengeanc
Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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Men Moving Tactic
I think the only choice that will enable us to hold to our vision. . . is one that abandons the concept of naming enemies and adopts a concept familiar to the nonviolent tradition: naming behavior that is oppressive.
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Choices Enemy Thinking
there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
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Anger Determination Healthy
All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
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Our People Prison Society
After the revolution, it might very well remain necessary to place people where they could not do harm to others. But the one under restraint should be cut off from the rest of society as little as possible.
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Cutting Harm Little People Revolution
The point is to change one’s life. The point is not to give some vent to the emotions that have been destroying one; the point is so to act that one can master them now.
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Destroying Emotion Giving

The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.

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