Our own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
BARBARA DEMINGOur task, of course, is to transmute the anger that is affliction into the anger that is determination to bring about change. I think, in fact, that one could give that as a definition of revolution.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
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After the revolution, let us hope, prisons simply would not exist – if by prisons we mean places that could be experienced by the men and women in them at all as every place that goes by that name now is bound to be experienced.
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The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.
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I learned always to trust my own deep sense of what I should do, and not just obediently trust the judgment of others – even others better than I am.
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Our task, of course, is to transmute the anger that is affliction into the anger that is determination to bring about change. I think, in fact, that one could give that as a definition of revolution.
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What is the revolution that we need? We need to dissolve the lie that some people have a right to think of other people as their property. And we need at last to form a circle that includes us all, in which all of us are seen as equal… We do not belong to the other, but our lives are linked; we belong in a circle of others.
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there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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The point is to change one’s life. The point is not to give some vent to the emotions that have been destroying one; the point is so to act that one can master them now.
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We cannot live without our lives
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All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
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A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
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We learn best to listen to our own voices if we are listening at the same time to other women-whose stories, for all our differences, turn out, if we listen well, to be our stories also.
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Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
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Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
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