We cannot live without our lives
BARBARA DEMINGOur own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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Let me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
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Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
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I think the only choice that will enable us to hold to our vision. . . is one that abandons the concept of naming enemies and adopts a concept familiar to the nonviolent tradition: naming behavior that is oppressive.
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Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people’s minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.
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All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
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To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
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Our own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
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there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
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Vengeance is not the point: change is.
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People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.
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Surely all of us are nerved by one another, catch courage from one another.
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People may find it more comfortable to listen to us if we equivocate, but in the long run only words that discomfort them are going to change our situation.
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I learned always to trust my own deep sense of what I should do, and not just obediently trust the judgment of others – even others better than I am.
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Of course it can be said of jails, too, that they try – by punishing the troublesome – to deter others. No doubt, in certain instances this deterrence actually works. But generally speaking it fails conspicuously.
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