Being mystified is a good beginning, because you won’t do what you’ve done before.
ALAN ALDAThere’s plenty of money to be had. But you also lose your soul.
More Alan Alda Quotes
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This gets us back to that most pressing of human questions: why do people worry so much about other people’s holding beliefs other than their own?
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Real listening is a willingness to let the other person change you.
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Life is great-I wouldn’t know what I’d do without it.
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[You have to be] willing to be changed by the person you’re listening to, where you’re not just waiting for a pause so you can say your thing, but you’re actually letting them have an effect on you if they can.
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The other one, and probably an equal pleasure, is finding out how I can be helpful and then really being helpful.
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I find myself going to places where I really have no business, speaking to these people in a whole other field that I have no extensive knowledge of. But I do it very often because it scares me.
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There’s plenty of money to be had. But you also lose your soul.
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Eventually, I found a radical way of thinking about listening. Real listening is a willingness to let the other person change you.
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I have thought about punching people out. Sometimes, I’ve thought, ‘Why don’t I just act on that impulse?’ But then, I’ve never hit anybody in anger. Hey! I’ve never hit anybody for fun.
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After a while I started to think of that as an image of something that went a lot deeper than the dead dog, which is you can’t bring back anything to life.
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If I can’t get the girl, at least give me more money.
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Laugh at yourself, but don’t ever aim your doubt at yourself. Be bold. When you embark for strange places, don’t leave any of yourself safely on shore. Have the nerve to go into unexplored territory.
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Whenever you wonder about yourself, look up at the stars swirling around in the heavens and just realize how tiny and puny they are.
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What works for me is working out when it’s useful to use that anger.
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In the midst of the sense of tragedy or loss, sometimes laughter is not only healing, it’s a way of experiencing the person that you’ve lost again.
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