Eventually, I found a radical way of thinking about listening. Real listening is a willingness to let the other person change you.
ALAN ALDAIt tends to break out at unexpected times like a rare virus and mostly people with compassion and understanding are susceptible to it.
More Alan Alda Quotes
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Really top-notch directors, I’ve often worked with them just to see how they work.
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If I don’t win, I’ll just wait until I’m nominated for being in the theater during the show. Do they have one like that?
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And I think belief is one of those things that comes to people in their own way. And just because I believe in something doesn’t mean I think that you should.
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What I can’t completely understand is most other people’s fascination with what the famous among us do with their lips and the rest of their bodies.
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As I am becoming older, the only thing that speeds up is time.
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I try to find out what there is in the character that in a way, you can’t put into words. If I could put it into words, then it wouldn’t be a performance. And if I do put it into words, as I play it, I start to get boxed in by those words.
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After a while I started to think of that as an image of something that went a lot deeper than the dead dog, which is you can’t bring back anything to life.
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I had never really wanted to be famous. Everyone is supposed to want to be rich and famous, but as a boy I never knew what rich was, and the first view I had of famous made me leery.
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We’re highly social animals – I’m told by scientists that what makes us different from other animals is an acute social awareness, which is what has made us so successful.
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Life is great-I wouldn’t know what I’d do without it.
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The other one, and probably an equal pleasure, is finding out how I can be helpful and then really being helpful.
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You’ll be a lot less likely to be caught up in bias or prejudice or be influenced by people who ask you to hand over your brains, your soul or your money because they have everything all figured out for you.
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I found I wasn’t asking good enough questions because I assumed I knew something.
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One day, though, I realized I was no longer a believer, and realizing that, I couldn’t go back.
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Jean Paul Sartre says in “No Exit” that hell is other people. Well, our task in life is to make it heaven. Or at least earth.
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Be as smart as you can, but remember that it is always better to be wise than to be smart.
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Insanity is just a state of mind.
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There are two things that I get a lot of pleasure from in my life, and that is, doing what I know how to do well – that really makes me happy.
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A really great actor, in a lucky performance, can transform himself or herself. I’ve seen actors do that.
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Remarkably, according to what they told me, nearly every inmate in the prison didn’t do it.
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Being mystified is a good beginning, because you won’t do what you’ve done before.
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I’ve been lucky enough to live through all the things that are supposed to give meaning to our lives, like parenting, grandparenting, art, celebrity.
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No man or woman of the humblest sort can really be strong, gentle and good, without the world being better for it, without somebody being helped and comforted by the very existence of that goodness.
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They wont all lie to you but a lot of them will. And itll be the easiest lie they ever had to tell to get your votes.
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[You have to be] willing to be changed by the person you’re listening to, where you’re not just waiting for a pause so you can say your thing, but you’re actually letting them have an effect on you if they can.
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If you know what you’re looking for, that’s all you’ll get – what’s previously known. But when you’re open to what’s possible, you get something new – that’s creativity.
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