Real listening is a willingness to let the other person change you.
ALAN ALDAAll these things you expect meaning to come from, and sometimes it comes when you’re not expecting it.
More Alan Alda Quotes
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As I am becoming older, the only thing that speeds up is time.
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This gets us back to that most pressing of human questions: why do people worry so much about other people’s holding beliefs other than their own?
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When your kids turn 13, an alien being invades their bodies and doesn’t leave until they’re 20.
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I have thought about punching people out. Sometimes, I’ve thought, ‘Why don’t I just act on that impulse?’ But then, I’ve never hit anybody in anger. Hey! I’ve never hit anybody for fun.
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You’ll be a lot less likely to be caught up in bias or prejudice or be influenced by people who ask you to hand over your brains, your soul or your money because they have everything all figured out for you.
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Being mystified is a good beginning, because you won’t do what you’ve done before.
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And I want to warn everyone in the press and all the voters out there: if you demand expressions of religious faith from politicians, you are just begging to be lied to.
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A taste; a painful longing. but the net is always too porous, and we are left with the sweet frustration of almost knowing, which is teasingly pleasurable.
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No man or woman of the humblest sort can really be strong, gentle and good, without the world being better for it, without somebody being helped and comforted by the very existence of that goodness.
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Our lives depend on good communication. Good communication helps personal relationships, it helps bosses and employees get along better. We rely on it.
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There are two things that I get a lot of pleasure from in my life, and that is, doing what I know how to do well – that really makes me happy.
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And I think belief is one of those things that comes to people in their own way. And just because I believe in something doesn’t mean I think that you should.
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Eventually, I found a radical way of thinking about listening. Real listening is a willingness to let the other person change you.
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I’m not trying to create some impression about myself. That doesn’t interest me.
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One day, though, I realized I was no longer a believer, and realizing that, I couldn’t go back.
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