Why do ordinary people become the target of this curiosity simply by virtue of the fact that other people recognize their names and faces but know nothing else about them? Why do we care what they think, what they wear, what they eat?
ALAN ALDAI would box them into a corner with a badly formed question, and they didn’t know how to get out of it. Now, I let them take me through it step by step, and I listen.
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Really top-notch directors, I’ve often worked with them just to see how they work.
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Some of the greatest things, as I understand, they have come about by serendipity, the greatest discoveries
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I’ve sat looking down into a volcano that could blow at any moment; I’ve helped catch a shark and several rattlesnakes;
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I can sing in tune now, but I have to work really hard on it to make sure that I don’t exercise one of my great talents, which is the ability to sing in three keys at the same time.
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When I’m willing to let them change me, something happens between us that’s more interesting than a pair of dueling monologues.
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Listening is being able to be changed by the other person.
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Real listening is a willingness to let the other person change you.
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I found I wasn’t asking good enough questions because I assumed I knew something.
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When your kids turn 13, an alien being invades their bodies and doesn’t leave until they’re 20.
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But often it’s a mechanical transformation, which isn’t as interesting, and you’ve got to be careful how you go about something like that, I think.
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When I studied how to think in school, I was taught that the first rule of logic was that a thing cannot both be and not be at the same time and in the same respect.
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artists try to say things that can’t be said. in a fragile net of words, gestures, or colors, we hope to capture a feeling.
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Eventually, I found a radical way of thinking about listening. Real listening is a willingness to let the other person change you.
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What you’ll discover will be wonderful. What you’ll discover is yourself.
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One day, though, I realized I was no longer a believer, and realizing that, I couldn’t go back.
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Your assumptions are your windows on the world. Scrub them off every once in a while or the light won’t come in. If you challenge your own, you won’t be so quick to accept the unchallenged assumptions of others.
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I’ve been lucky enough to live through all the things that are supposed to give meaning to our lives, like parenting, grandparenting, art, celebrity.
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But if you consider how abnormal their behavior is, then you are led to the hypothesis that almost all men are suffering from ‘testosterone poisoning.’
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For me, I find that even though I’ve accomplished a few things in my life, looking back on accomplishments doesn’t give me a sense of satisfaction.
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I dont see we can have a separation of church and state in this government if you have to pass a religious test to get in this government.
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If I don’t win, I’ll just wait until I’m nominated for being in the theater during the show. Do they have one like that?
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Begin challenging your own assumptions.
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Insanity is just a state of mind.
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I have thought about punching people out. Sometimes, I’ve thought, ‘Why don’t I just act on that impulse?’ But then, I’ve never hit anybody in anger. Hey! I’ve never hit anybody for fun.
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Be brave enough to live life creatively. The creative place where no one else has ever been.
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I guess in a world uncomfortable with uncertainty, an unbeliever must be an atheist, and possibly an infidel.
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