Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAlthough I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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