Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAlthough I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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