I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAlthough I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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What I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but that we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas and make sure that we own them, that we’re truly the authors of our own ambitions.
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