Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAlthough I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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