True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWilliam James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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If our lives are dominated by a search for happiness, then perhaps few activities reveal as much about the dynamics of this quest – in all its ardour and paradoxes – than our travels.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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