Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWilliam James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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