The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWilliam James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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