Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
ALAIN DE BOTTONSo many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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