The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONSo many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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