The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
ALAIN DE BOTTONSo many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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