The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
ALAIN DE BOTTONSo many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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