As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
ALAIN DE BOTTONGetting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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