You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
ALAIN DE BOTTONTrue respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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