Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
ALAIN DE BOTTONTrue respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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