Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
ALAIN DE BOTTONI think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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