We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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