It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAs we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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