You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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