Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIntuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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