The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
ALAIN DE BOTTONHe did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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