I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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