There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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