Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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