It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
AIMEE BENDERWith my hand in his, I looked at all the apartment buildings with rushes of love, peering in the wide streetside windows that revealed living rooms painted in dark burgandies and matte reds.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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It is so often surprising, who rescues you at your lowest moments.
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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You try, you seem totally nuts, you go underground.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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and I get refill number three or four and the wine is making my bones loose and it’s giving my hair a red sheen and my breasts are blooming and my eyes feel sultry and wise and the dress is water.
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It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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Glen Hirshberg’s stories are haunting, absolutely, but not only because of the content.
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I could feel the tears beginning to collect in my throat again, but I pushed them apart, away from each other. Tears are only a threat in groups.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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It is all about numbers. It is all about sequence. It’s the mathematical logic of being alive.
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When language is treated beautifully and interestingly, it can feel good for the body: It’s nourishing; it’s rejuvenating.
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Not getting bored of my own story and/or character is one of the main struggles.
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She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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