That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
AIMEE BENDERThe wine glasses are empty except for that one undrinkable red spot at the bottom.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
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Mom loved my brother more. Not that she didn’t love me – I felt the wash of her love every day.
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You can ruin anything if you focus at it.
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She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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I peeled the skin off a grape in slippery little triangles, and I understood then that I would be undressing every item of food I could because my clothes would be staying on.
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I could feel the tears beginning to collect in my throat again, but I pushed them apart, away from each other. Tears are only a threat in groups.
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I was with them for all of it, but more like an echo than a participant.
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It is so often surprising, who rescues you at your lowest moments.
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I am the drying meadow; you the unspoken apology; he is the fluctuating distance between mother and son.
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The wine glasses are empty except for that one undrinkable red spot at the bottom.
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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I watched as she added a question mark at the end. Arc, line, space, dot.
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