My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.” – Aimee Bender (Willful Creatures: Stories)
AIMEE BENDERWe hit the sidewalk, and dropped hands. How I wished, right then, that the whole world was a street.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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Many kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn’t appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.
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I watched as she added a question mark at the end. Arc, line, space, dot.
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave.
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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I admired that stride; it was like he folded space in two with it.
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Listen. Look. Desire is a house. Desire needs closed space. Desire runs out of doors or windows, or slats or pinpricks, it can’t fit under the sky, too large. Close the doors. Close the windows.
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother’s palm and fingertips.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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Mom loved my brother more. Not that she didn’t love me – I felt the wash of her love every day.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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