I don’t think so, I don’t agree. The most unbearable thing I think by far, she said, is hope.
AIMEE BENDERThat she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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The wine glasses are empty except for that one undrinkable red spot at the bottom.
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We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
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The stories themselves haunt, they stick around, they linger, inhabiting a little corner of the reader’s brain and resurfacing to evoke mystery or sadness or longing.
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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Many kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn’t appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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Not getting bored of my own story and/or character is one of the main struggles.
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I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
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It is so often surprising, who rescues you at your lowest moments.
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
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When language is treated beautifully and interestingly, it can feel good for the body: It’s nourishing; it’s rejuvenating.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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I have had with novel writing, and I have put to bed big chunks of work that just didn’t sustain my interest.
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