As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
AIMEE BENDERIt was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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But the sky is interesting, it changes all the time.
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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I want to be violated by insight.
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I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
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I could feel the tears beginning to collect in my throat again, but I pushed them apart, away from each other. Tears are only a threat in groups.
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Not getting bored of my own story and/or character is one of the main struggles.
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While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave.
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I peeled the skin off a grape in slippery little triangles, and I understood then that I would be undressing every item of food I could because my clothes would be staying on.
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It is so often surprising, who rescues you at your lowest moments.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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But what I kept wondering about is this: that first second when she felt her skirt burning, what did she think?
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
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I give boring people something to discuss over corn.
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