The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
AIMEE BENDERWe’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
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When the light at Vernon turned green, we stepped into the street and George grabbed my hand and the ghosts of our younger selves crossed with us.
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You can ruin anything if you focus at it.
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You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
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Mom flipped through the magazines like the pages needed to be slapped.
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It’s a pleasure to dive into Hirshberg’s storytelling skills in American Morons.
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I like birthday cake. It’s so symbolic. It’s a tempting symbol to load with something more complicated than just ‘Happy birthday!’ because it’s this emblem of childhood and a happy day.
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We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
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And the warmth of the music inside her, did she believe, for even one glorious second, that her passion had arrived?
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave.
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I am the drying meadow; you the unspoken apology; he is the fluctuating distance between mother and son.
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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Listen. Look. Desire is a house. Desire needs closed space. Desire runs out of doors or windows, or slats or pinpricks, it can’t fit under the sky, too large. Close the doors. Close the windows.
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