He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
AIMEE BENDERYou can ruin anything if you focus at it.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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You’re the perfect girl’, he said, rubbing his chin. ‘You expect nothing.
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I don’t think so, I don’t agree. The most unbearable thing I think by far, she said, is hope.
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This is why everyone who eats a Whopper leaves a little more depressed than they were when they came in. Nobody cooked that burger.
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I like birthday cake. It’s so symbolic. It’s a tempting symbol to load with something more complicated than just ‘Happy birthday!’ because it’s this emblem of childhood and a happy day.
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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I felt the crumpled paper that had taken the place of my lungs expand as if released from a fist.
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While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave.
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I give boring people something to discuss over corn.
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She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
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As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.
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It seemed to happen in springs, the revealing of things.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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You can ruin anything if you focus at it.
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Before she knew it was candles, did she think she’d done it herself? With the amazing turns of her hips.
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