It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
AIMEE BENDERIt seemed to happen in springs, the revealing of things.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.
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We hit the sidewalk, and dropped hands. How I wished, right then, that the whole world was a street.
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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Not getting bored of my own story and/or character is one of the main struggles.
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I give boring people something to discuss over corn.
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But I loved George in part because he believed me; because if I stood in a cold, plain room and yelled FIRE, he would walk over and ask me why.
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I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
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It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
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While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave.
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Many kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn’t appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
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I could feel the tears beginning to collect in my throat again, but I pushed them apart, away from each other. Tears are only a threat in groups.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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My lover is experiencing reverse evolution.
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