As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.
AIMEE BENDERIt seemed to happen in springs, the revealing of things.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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I like birthday cake. It’s so symbolic. It’s a tempting symbol to load with something more complicated than just ‘Happy birthday!’ because it’s this emblem of childhood and a happy day.
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I have had with novel writing, and I have put to bed big chunks of work that just didn’t sustain my interest.
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But the sky is interesting, it changes all the time.
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Not getting bored of my own story and/or character is one of the main struggles.
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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It’s a pleasure to dive into Hirshberg’s storytelling skills in American Morons.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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Language is the ticket to plot and character, after all, because both are built out of language.
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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But I loved George in part because he believed me; because if I stood in a cold, plain room and yelled FIRE, he would walk over and ask me why.
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A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
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You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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