We have lived with violence far too long.
ADRIENNE RICHWomen have always been seen as waiting: waited to be asked, waiting for our menses, in fear lest they do or do not come, waiting for men to come home from wars, or from work.
More Adrienne Rich Quotes
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The revolution of a wheel which returns in the end to the same place; the revolving door of a politics which has liberated women only to use them, and only within the limits of male tolerance.
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The channel of art can only become clogged and misdirected by the artist’s concern with merely temporary and local disturbances. The song is higher than the struggle.
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Until we understand the assumptions in which we are drenched we cannot know ourselves. And this drive to self-knowledge, for women, is more than a search for identity.
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My children cause me the most exquisite suffering of which I have any experience. It is the suffering of ambivalence: the murderous alternation between bitter resentment and raw-edged nerves, and blissful gratification and tenderness.
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Experience is always larger than language.
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Motherhood is the great mesh in which all human relations are entangled, in which lurk our most elemental assumptions about love and power.
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The most important thing a woman can do for another is to illuminate her actual possibilities.
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The more I live, the more I think, two people together is a miracle.
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The moment when a feeling enters the body/ is political. This touch is political
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In [family snapshots] the flow of profane time has been stopped and a sacred interval of self-conscious revelation has been cut from it by the edge of the picture frame and the light of the sun or the flash.
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Not biology, but ignorance of ourselves, has been the key to our powerlessness
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What would it mean to live in a city whose people were changing each other’s despair into hope?– You yourself must change it.
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Much male fear of feminism is infantilism–the longing to remain the mother’s son, to possess a woman who exists purely for him.
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When someone with the authority of a teacher describes the world and you’re not in it, there’s a moment of psychic disequilibrium, as if you looked into a mirror and saw nothing.
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Change is not a threat to your life, but an invitation to live.
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Every poem breaks a silence that had to be overcome.
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Lying is done with words and also with silence.
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To allow what you’re reading to pierce routines, safe and impermeable, in which ordinary carnal life is tracked, charted, channeled. Then, what of the right answers.
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Lies are usually attempts to make everything simpler – for the liar – than it really is, or ought to be.
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The most notable fact that our culture imprints on women is a sense of our limits.
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No one sleeps in this room without the dream of a common language.
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We have no familiar, ready-made name for a woman who defines herself, by choice, neither in relation to children nor to men, who is self-identified, who has chosen herself.
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It will take all your heart, it will take all your breath It will be short, it will not be simple
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I’ve had to guess at her, sewing her skin together as I sew mine, though with a different stitch
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How we dwelt in two worlds the daughters and the mothers in the kingdom of the sons.
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Sometimes I seem to myself, in my feelings toward these tiny guiltless beings, a monster of selfishness and intolerance.
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