From their struggles to establish dominance over each other, siblings become tougher and more resilient.
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Anand Thakur
From their struggles to establish dominance over each other, siblings become tougher and more resilient.
ADELE FABERFrom their verbal sparring they learn the difference between being clever and being hurtful.
ADELE FABERThe whole world will tell them what’s wrong with them–out loud and often.
ADELE FABERFrom the normal irritations of living together, they learn how to assert themselves, defend themselves, compromise.
ADELE FABERKeeping our youth and yesterdays alive / Comrades with one history.
ADELE FABERAnd sometimes, from their envy of each other’s special abilities they become inspired to work harder, persist and achieve.
ADELE FABEROur job is to let our children know what’s right about them.
ADELE FABERNo one cares / who is better / who is worse / who has more / who has less.
ADELE FABERAnd it’s not hard to understand why in families across the land,
ADELE FABERLess time alone with parents. Less attention for hurts and disappointments. Less approval for accomplishments. . . .
ADELE FABERWe have another obligation to our children, and that is to affirm their “rightness.”
ADELE FABERThe resentment that each child feels for the privileges of the other;
ADELE FABERNo wonder they mobilize all their energy to have more or most. Or better still, all.
ADELE FABERAnd once he’s clear about that reality, he gathers the strength to begin to cope.
ADELE FABERTake two kids in competition for their parents’ love and attention.
ADELE FABERWhen we acknowledge a child’s feelings, we do him a great service.
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