The child..will try to make himself..independent of other people. .
ADAM PHILLIPSSanity, in other words, becomes a pressing preoccupation as soon as we recognize the importance of recognition.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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Believing in religion is like believing that adulthood is the solution to childhood.
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Lovers, of course, are notoriously frantic epistemologists, second only to paranoiacs (and analysts) as readers of signs and wonders.
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The child can find out what the object ..might be only by finding ..obstacles to its access
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Monogamy is a way of getting the versions of ourselves down to the minimum.
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There is nothing more terrorizing than the possibility that nothing is hidden.
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The vocabulary of one’s self-criticism is so impoverished and clichéd.
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You write to find out what you believe.
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When we define ourselves by what we can recognize, by what we can comprehend- rather than, say, by what we can describe
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The whole notion of sanity may be an attempt to medicalize morality – to speak of the good in the language of health: to make us more accurate, more scientific in our wanting – but by the same token it becomes a form of moral blackmail.
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There is nothing more scandalous than a happy marriage
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People change, but there really are limits.
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We are children for a very long time.
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The past influences everything and dictates nothing.
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One thing you discover in psychoanalytic treatment is the limits of what you can change about yourself or your life.
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To our grudge against our mothers; the way we never let our mothers off the hook for their not meeting our every need.
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