The child..will try to make himself..independent of other people. .
ADAM PHILLIPSSanity, in other words, becomes a pressing preoccupation as soon as we recognize the importance of recognition.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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We are children for a very long time.
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One thing you discover in psychoanalytic treatment is the limits of what you can change about yourself or your life.
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To keep faith with recognition we have to stay recognizable.
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We are at our most stupid in our self-hatred.
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Sanity, as the project of keeping ourselves recognizably human, therefore has to limit the range of human experience.
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You write to find out what you believe.
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The child [uses] ‘doubt about food to hide doubt about love.’
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Excesses of appetite are self-cures for feelings of hopelessness. ..
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Wanting to be understood, as adults, can be our most violent form of nostalgia.
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There is nothing more terrorizing than the possibility that nothing is hidden.
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Tragic heroes are failed pragmatists. Their ends are unrealistic and their means are impractical.
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Transgression is a quest for solitude
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To our grudge against our mothers; the way we never let our mothers off the hook for their not meeting our every need.
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Lovers, of course, are notoriously frantic epistemologists, second only to paranoiacs (and analysts) as readers of signs and wonders.
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People change, but there really are limits.
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