There is nothing more terrorizing than the possibility that nothing is hidden.
ADAM PHILLIPSLovers, of course, are notoriously frantic epistemologists, second only to paranoiacs (and analysts) as readers of signs and wonders.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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The child [uses] ‘doubt about food to hide doubt about love.’
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You write to find out what you believe.
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We are tyrannized by our blind spots, and by whatever it is about ourselves that we find unacceptable.
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It is as if to say: if these are not valued – if these forms of wanting and feeling and speaking and doing – are not cultivated and encouraged and rewarded in the child, then the child will be mad.
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To grow up is to discover what one is unequal to.
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Monogamy is a way of getting the versions of ourselves down to the minimum.
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Believing in religion is like believing that adulthood is the solution to childhood.
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Tragic heroes are failed pragmatists. Their ends are unrealistic and their means are impractical.
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When we define ourselves by what we can recognize, by what we can comprehend- rather than, say, by what we can describe
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Excesses of appetite are self-cures for feelings of hopelessness. ..
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we are continually under threat from what we are unwilling and/or unable to see.
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Transgression is a quest for solitude
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The child..will try to make himself..independent of other people. .
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To our grudge against our mothers; the way we never let our mothers off the hook for their not meeting our every need.
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One thing you discover in psychoanalytic treatment is the limits of what you can change about yourself or your life.
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