When we define ourselves by what we can recognize, by what we can comprehend- rather than, say, by what we can describe
ADAM PHILLIPSWe are tyrannized by our blind spots, and by whatever it is about ourselves that we find unacceptable.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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Sanity, in other words, becomes a pressing preoccupation as soon as we recognize the importance of recognition.
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The child..will try to make himself..independent of other people. .
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People change, but there really are limits.
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The whole notion of sanity may be an attempt to medicalize morality – to speak of the good in the language of health: to make us more accurate, more scientific in our wanting – but by the same token it becomes a form of moral blackmail.
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Excesses of appetite are self-cures for feelings of hopelessness. ..
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One thing you discover in psychoanalytic treatment is the limits of what you can change about yourself or your life.
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Monogamy is a way of getting the versions of ourselves down to the minimum.
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Tragic heroes are failed pragmatists. Their ends are unrealistic and their means are impractical.
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The child can find out what the object ..might be only by finding ..obstacles to its access
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Lovers, of course, are notoriously frantic epistemologists, second only to paranoiacs (and analysts) as readers of signs and wonders.
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You write to find out what you believe.
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The child [uses] ‘doubt about food to hide doubt about love.’
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Believing in religion is like believing that adulthood is the solution to childhood.
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We are at our most stupid in our self-hatred.
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We are children for a very long time.
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