We are tyrannized by our blind spots, and by whatever it is about ourselves that we find unacceptable.
ADAM PHILLIPSBelieving in religion is like believing that adulthood is the solution to childhood.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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The big secret about Art is that no one wants it to be true.
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Tragic heroes are failed pragmatists. Their ends are unrealistic and their means are impractical.
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Sanity, as the project of keeping ourselves recognizably human, therefore has to limit the range of human experience.
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Sanity, in other words, becomes a pressing preoccupation as soon as we recognize the importance of recognition.
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The child can find out what the object ..might be only by finding ..obstacles to its access
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Everybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.
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To grow up is to discover what one is unequal to.
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There is nothing more scandalous than a happy marriage
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To our grudge against our mothers; the way we never let our mothers off the hook for their not meeting our every need.
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The vocabulary of one’s self-criticism is so impoverished and clichéd.
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Monogamy is a way of getting the versions of ourselves down to the minimum.
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The past influences everything and dictates nothing.
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I am always true to myself, that is the problem. Who else could I be true to?
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The child..will try to make himself..independent of other people. .
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Wanting to be understood, as adults, can be our most violent form of nostalgia.
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