It is as if to say: if these are not valued – if these forms of wanting and feeling and speaking and doing – are not cultivated and encouraged and rewarded in the child, then the child will be mad.
ADAM PHILLIPSThe past influences everything and dictates nothing.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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To keep faith with recognition we have to stay recognizable.
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To grow up is to discover what one is unequal to.
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We are at our most stupid in our self-hatred.
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we are continually under threat from what we are unwilling and/or unable to see.
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There is nothing more scandalous than a happy marriage
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Lovers, of course, are notoriously frantic epistemologists, second only to paranoiacs (and analysts) as readers of signs and wonders.
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Transgression is a quest for solitude
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The past influences everything and dictates nothing.
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The vocabulary of one’s self-criticism is so impoverished and clichéd.
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The child..will try to make himself..independent of other people. .
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We are children for a very long time.
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Sanity, in other words, becomes a pressing preoccupation as soon as we recognize the importance of recognition.
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Excesses of appetite are self-cures for feelings of hopelessness. ..
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We are tyrannized by our blind spots, and by whatever it is about ourselves that we find unacceptable.
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Wanting to be understood, as adults, can be our most violent form of nostalgia.
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