One thing you discover in psychoanalytic treatment is the limits of what you can change about yourself or your life.
ADAM PHILLIPSThe past influences everything and dictates nothing.
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When we define ourselves by what we can recognize, by what we can comprehend- rather than, say, by what we can describe
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Excesses of appetite are self-cures for feelings of hopelessness. ..
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Transgression is a quest for solitude
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To our grudge against our mothers; the way we never let our mothers off the hook for their not meeting our every need.
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Monogamy is a way of getting the versions of ourselves down to the minimum.
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People change, but there really are limits.
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There is nothing more terrorizing than the possibility that nothing is hidden.
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Wanting to be understood, as adults, can be our most violent form of nostalgia.
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Everybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.
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The child [uses] ‘doubt about food to hide doubt about love.’
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Tragic heroes are failed pragmatists. Their ends are unrealistic and their means are impractical.
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The vocabulary of one’s self-criticism is so impoverished and clichéd.
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The whole notion of sanity may be an attempt to medicalize morality – to speak of the good in the language of health: to make us more accurate, more scientific in our wanting – but by the same token it becomes a form of moral blackmail.
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You write to find out what you believe.
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Lovers, of course, are notoriously frantic epistemologists, second only to paranoiacs (and analysts) as readers of signs and wonders.
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