Everybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.
ADAM PHILLIPSThere is nothing more terrorizing than the possibility that nothing is hidden.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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Sanity, as the project of keeping ourselves recognizably human, therefore has to limit the range of human experience.
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We are at our most stupid in our self-hatred.
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There is nothing more terrorizing than the possibility that nothing is hidden.
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We are tyrannized by our blind spots, and by whatever it is about ourselves that we find unacceptable.
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One thing you discover in psychoanalytic treatment is the limits of what you can change about yourself or your life.
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When we define ourselves by what we can recognize, by what we can comprehend- rather than, say, by what we can describe
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It is as if to say: if these are not valued – if these forms of wanting and feeling and speaking and doing – are not cultivated and encouraged and rewarded in the child, then the child will be mad.
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To our grudge against our mothers; the way we never let our mothers off the hook for their not meeting our every need.
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We are children for a very long time.
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People change, but there really are limits.
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The whole notion of sanity may be an attempt to medicalize morality – to speak of the good in the language of health: to make us more accurate, more scientific in our wanting – but by the same token it becomes a form of moral blackmail.
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You write to find out what you believe.
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Excesses of appetite are self-cures for feelings of hopelessness. ..
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Tragic heroes are failed pragmatists. Their ends are unrealistic and their means are impractical.
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We have been taught to wish for it, but the wish to be understood may be our most vengeful demand, may be the way we hang on, as adults ,
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