What I needed with all my starved and silent soul was just that particular way of shouting back at the world.
IRIS MURDOCHOnly take someone’s hand in a certain way, even look into their eyes in a certain way, and the world is changed forever.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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The absolute yearning of one human body for another particular body and its indifference to substitutes is one of life’s major mysteries.
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This sort of quiet gazing, which was like a feeding of the heart.
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White magic is black magic. A less than perfect meddling in the spiritual world can breed monsters for other people, and demons used for good can hang around and make mischief afterwards.
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Bereavement is a darkness impenetrable to the imagination of the unbereaved.
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We live in a fantasy world, a world of illusion. The great task in life is to find reality says Iris Murdoch. But given the state of the world, is it wise?
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To lose somebody is to lose not only their person but all those modes and manifestations into which their person has flowed outwards; so that in losing a beloved one may find so many things, pictures, poems, melodies, places lost too: Dante, Avignon, a song of Shakespeare’s, the Cornish sea.
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I don’t think I can marry, I’m not fit for it, I’m not real enough. That’s the trouble. I’m a puppet that’s realised what’s wrong with itself and it’s horrible. I’m propped up somewhere all alone, watching the real people go past. I’m propped up crying in a corner.
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Her eyes, which refused to meet mine, had the defensive coldness of those who are determined to lose hope.
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That doesn’t sound like you, you ride every wave. There is one that will drown me
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We are all prisoner, but the name of our cure is not freedom.
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Anything that consoles is fake.
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Between saying and doing, many a pair of shoes is worn out.
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Art and psychoanalisis give shape and meaning to life and that’s why we adore them. However, life as it is lived has no shape nor meaning, and that’s what I am experiencing right now.
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As we live our precarious lives on the brink of the void, constantly coming closer to a state of nonbeing, we are all too often aware of our fragitlity.
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What a test that is: more than devotion, admiration, passion. If you long and long for someone’s company you love them.
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