Every persisting marriage is based on fear’, said Peregrine. ‘Fear is fundamental, you dig down in human nature and what’s at the bottom? Mean spiteful cruel self-regarding fear, whether it makes you to put the foot in it or whether it makes you to cower.
IRIS MURDOCHFalling out of love is chiefly a matter of forgetting how charming someone is.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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Youth is a marvelous garment.
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Jealousy is the most dreadfully involuntary of all sins.
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What an extraordinary satisfaction there is in cleaning things! (Does the satisfaction depend on ownership? I suspect so.
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Only take someone’s hand in a certain way, even look into their eyes in a certain way, and the world is changed forever.
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Only the very greatest art invigorates without consoling.
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In philosophy if you aren’t moving at a snail’s pace you aren’t moving at all.
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Starting a novel is opening a door on a misty landscape; you can still see very little but you can smell the earth and feel the wind blowing.
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There is no beyond, there is only here, the infinitely small, infinitely great and utterly demanding present.
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Falling out of love is chiefly a matter of forgetting how charming someone is.
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People have obsessions and fears and passions which they don’t admit to. I think every character is interesting and has extremes. It’s the novelist privilege to see how odd everyone is.
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I think being a woman is like being Irish, Everyone says you’re important and nice, but you take second place all the time.
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Every artist is an unhappy lover. And unhappy lovers want to tell their story.
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The most essential and fundamental aspect of culture is the study of literature, since this is an education in how to picture and understand human situations.
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Of course reading and thinking are important but, my God, food is important too.
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The theatre is certainly a place for learning about the brevity of human glory: oh all those wonderful glittering absolutely vanished pantomime! Now I shall abjure magic and become a hermit : put myself in a situation where I can honestly say that I have nothing else to do but to learn to be good.
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