You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
TUTU DESMONDIf you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
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If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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Transformation begins in you, wherever you are, whatever has happened, however you are suffering. Transformation is always possible.
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Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
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We are made for goodness. We are made for love. We are made for friendliness. We are made for togetherness. We are made for all of the beautiful things that you and I know.
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Out of the cacophony of random suffering and chaos that can mark human life, the life artist sees or creates a symphony of meaning and order.
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We must be ready to learn from one another, not claiming that we alone possess all truth and that somehow we have a corner on God.
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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Life of wholeness does not depend on what we experience. Wholeness depends on how we experience our lives
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I wish I could shut up, but I can’t, and I won’t.
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Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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