Be nice to whites, they need you to rediscover their humanity.
TUTU DESMONDBe nice to whites, they need you to rediscover their humanity.
TUTU DESMONDIn the end generosity is the best way of becoming more, more, and more joyful.
TUTU DESMONDThough wrong gratifies in the moment, good yields its gifts over a lifetime.
TUTU DESMONDA person is a person through other persons; you can’t be human in isolation; you are human only in relationships.
TUTU DESMONDDear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
TUTU DESMONDGive a man a fish and feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime. Teach a man to cycle and he will realize fishing is stupid and boring.
TUTU DESMONDTransformation begins in you, wherever you are, whatever has happened, however you are suffering. Transformation is always possible.
TUTU DESMONDYou show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
TUTU DESMONDThere comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
TUTU DESMONDWe must be ready to learn from one another, not claiming that we alone possess all truth and that somehow we have a corner on God.
TUTU DESMONDDear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
TUTU DESMONDThere is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
TUTU DESMONDA very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
TUTU DESMONDWhen we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.
TUTU DESMONDOur maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
TUTU DESMONDThe path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
TUTU DESMOND