We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
TUTU DESMONDWe are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
TUTU DESMONDTransformation begins in you, wherever you are, whatever has happened, however you are suffering. Transformation is always possible.
TUTU DESMONDDiscovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
TUTU DESMONDThe path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
TUTU DESMONDI wish I could shut up, but I can’t, and I won’t.
TUTU DESMONDWhen we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
TUTU DESMONDThere comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
TUTU DESMONDGive a man a fish and feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime. Teach a man to cycle and he will realize fishing is stupid and boring.
TUTU DESMONDWe have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreaks without being broken.
TUTU DESMONDWe are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
TUTU DESMONDYou don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
TUTU DESMONDGod is transforming the world now–through us–because God loves us.
TUTU DESMONDWe need other human beings in order to be human. I am because other people are. A person is entitled to a stable community life, and the first of these communities is the family.
TUTU DESMONDMuch depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
TUTU DESMONDOur maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
TUTU DESMONDI do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
TUTU DESMOND